Are some sins worse or better than others?
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Its important to recognize the difference between big S Sin and little s sins. Big S sin is the human state of being turned in on self without a thought of God or neighbor. Big S sin is putting ourselves on Gods throne and not allowing God to be God for us. The fancy Latin that Martin Luther used was se encurvatus en se. The self turned in on the self. That is that state of big S sin in which every human being on the planet lives.
Little s sins are the result of big S sin. But even if someone managed to pull off not committing little s sin they would still be plagued with big S Sin. Yet a lot of Christianity tries to come off as a way to avoid little s sin so that you are progressively sanctified until poof you are without big S sin.
For the record, Lutherans such as myself do not think this is actually possible, even though it sounds real nice. This is why a lot of other Christians dont like Lutherans, but that is another story entirely.
Now, back to the question. Are some little s sins worse than others? Yes. Are some little s sins better that others? No. (Leave it to a Lutheran to make something a paradox). But heres the thing: the sin of murder is more harmful than the sin of, say, stealing a salt-shaker from Dennys. But the big S Sin of the sinner who stole the salt-shaker is no less than the big S Sin of the sinner who killed another sinner.
Being Christian does not mean that we follow a really great Sin Management Program. It means that we confess that the grace of God is sufficient.
if grace is true, you must bear a true and not a fictitious sin. God does not save people who are only fictitious sinners. Be a sinner and sin boldly, but believe and rejoice in Christ even more boldly. For he is victorious over sin, death, and the world.[1]
-Martin Luther
Yes, but first lets define sin. In the U.S., we tend to think of sin and sex together. That pairing is most unfortunate, both for a healthy understanding of sex as well as a healthy understanding of sin. This limitation of sin to sex and, secondarily, to some vices (e.g., gambling, drinking, smoking) leads us Christians to over-attend to sexual sin and under-attend to other areas of sin.
For example, in a recent national election, most Americans polled did not understand war as a moral issue.
Sin is a condition of broken relationship, the act of breaking a relationship, living in broken relationships, and acting in ways so as to perpetuate a broken relationship. By this definition, murder is sin, insulting a colleague is sin, and passing laws that perpetuate injustice is sin. Ive heard some interpreters quote Paul to the effect that, since all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God, all sin is equal. Pauls statement might be rightly used to argue all human beings are sinners but not that all sins are equally weighty. Catholic moral theology has long argued that some sins were more (mortal) or less (venial) severe.
Certainly, murder is a worse sin than stealing a piece of candy. Abusing a child is a worse sin than flipping off the driver who cut you off in traffic.
Consider this principle: the more people are affected, the more permanent are the negative consequences, the deeper and broader and more irreparable the broken relationships, the worse the sin.
Well, some sins are a lot more fun than others! (Rim shot, please!).
Im not really one to worry about the afterlife. If there is one, I think everyone pretty much has it wrong. A favorable judgment isnt going to come from specifically taking, say, Jesus into your heart. Taking love into your heart, sure. But all the exclusionary rules that fall under the category of sin are far too inconsistent to be what actually happens.
I have to believe that the sin of stealing your stapler from work isnt going to compete with the sin of hypocrisy. I have to believe that the people who claim to do Gods work by making miserable the lives of those who are different from them arent really allowed a free pass when it comes to cleansing their conscience.
Even within the Ten Commandments, some are quite obviously good guidelines, but some are a little hazy. Dont kill anyone. Dont take shit thats not yours. Dont lie. Stop checkin out your neighbors firm butt because you might try to do something about it.
Solid advice. Telling your buddy that the hideous item of clothing that theyve fallen in love with looks good on them well, yes thats bearing false witness, but it comes from a good place, so thats gotta be ok, right???
The whole sin thing seems to be on a sliding scale to me, but Ive always operated under the idea that all sins are not created equally and that the best we can do is avoid the big ones and try to learn not to commit the smaller ones often.
[1] Weimar ed. vol. 2, p. 371; Letters I, Luthers Works, American Ed., Vol 48. p. 281- 282